Money is energy and a powerful tool that can help you open up new opportunities. However, for some, money can also be a source of anxiety and stress due to lack of financial abundance.
In this episode of Influence by Design, we talk about how to unlock financial abundance and conquer money blocks with Louisa Havers. She is a business mentor who helps clients unleash their superpowers and break through limiting beliefs in life and business.
Business situations will always change and the energy we feel impacts our money cycle. These feelings can put us in a position where we attract money, or we can feel the resistance and money blocks playing into power.
The road to financial abundance begins with connecting to the highest self. This way, all levels of consciousness are activated so intentions are in alignment with what you want to achieve.
To do this, Louisa shares her proven strategies and expertise that can shatter misconceptions and can help you achieve your next financial milestone.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- How Louisa helps clients break their upper limits and work towards fulfilment (01:22)
- Three flows of energy state and their impact on the money cycle (03:29)
- How energetic reversal eliminates self-sabotage and procrastination (12:15)
- Fixing money block symptoms by activating the higher self (15:55)
- What is muscle testing and how can you use it? (20:05)
- Strategies to shift the upper limits (26:15)
- The value of asking the right questions (29:20)
- Understanding the importance of obstacles in finding opportunities (32:02)
- Louisa’s advice for people wanting to step into abundance (39:45)
QUOTES:
- “You stop yourself from going down the wrong rabbit hole by finding out what’s going on energetically.” -Louisa Havers
- “Let the obstacles become the way because opportunities come from them.” -Louisa Havers
- “It’s very important to ask the right questions because it’s about learning something that will take us to the next level.” -Samantha Riley
RESOURCES
Resources
The Helix Method Manifesting Process
WHERE TO FIND LOUISA HAVERS
- Website: https://louisahavers.com/
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/louisahavers/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/louhavers
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/louisahavers/
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ABOUT LOUISA HAVERS
Louisa Havers is the Creator of The Helix Method, a Master Akashic Records teacher (Soul Journeys® Method), and a Business Mentor. She enables high achievers and coaches to unlock their superpowers, and “lift the ceiling” in both their lives and businesses. It’s a journey Louisa knows works as she’s personally undertaken it. Years spent leading change in the highly pressurized and stressful social services sector, led to shingles and chronic fatigue, compelling her to break free from the corporate matrix of overwork. It was the first step to creating her own life of freedom and dream business income. Louisa enables clients across the globe to activate quantum leaps to success in their own journey to making the impact they desire, with balance and harmony in their lives.
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Louisa Haver 00:00
Connecting him with your higher self, so that you’re bringing all levels of your consciousness intentionally on board for creating the consciousness that you want to have and embody. And I say embody because our body is a consciousness. So we want to bring our body on board, so that the cells in our body are in alignment with what we are wanting to create.
Samantha Riley 00:23
Welcome to the Influence By Design Podcast. I’m Samantha Riley, authority positioning strategist for coaches and experts. If you’re ready to build a business that gives you more than just a caffeine addiction, and you dream of making more money, having more time, and having the freedom to be living your best life, then you’re in the right place, it’s time to level up.
Welcome to today’s episode of Influence By Design, I’m your host Samantha Riley. And today we’re going to be talking about all things abundance. I’ve invited Louise Havers, who’s the creator of the Helix Method, she’s going to be talking more about that. She’s a master Akashic Records teacher and a business mentor. And she enables high achievers and coaches to unlock their superpowers and lift the ceiling in both their lives and their businesses. So if you are someone who has got some had some money come in, you’ve put the brakes on and you’re wondering why then this conversation is really going to help you. So welcome to the show. Louisa. It’s great to have you here.
Louisa Haver 01:25
Thank you so much. I’m so delighted to be here. Really looking at our conversation.
Samantha Riley 01:30
Absolutely. Now, just tell us where in the world you are and what the time is today, because this is pretty cool.
Louisa Haver 01:37
So I am in the UK, and it is 11 o’clock at night. Like I slightly feel like I’ve got jet lag.
Samantha Riley 01:48
It’s just such an absolute angel for coming on. At this time. I didn’t realize I here I am having my coffee because it’s early, and having a little window to myself. And it’s 11pm there. But between us, we’re going to absolutely knock this out of the path, I can feel it, we’ve got some great energy happening. Why don’t you share a little bit to kick us off? What it is that you do and the types of clients that you work with?
Louisa Haver 02:10
Yes, perfect. Thank you so much. So I work with coaches and entrepreneurs to help them break through their money ceilings, break through the upper limits, we can have these upper limits in all areas of life, so that they can have more fulfillment I find most people are whatever area they’re seeking for an expansion and ultimately that their desire is for more fulfillment across all areas of life. And I do that by working very energetically with people you mentioned in the intro, working with the Akashic records and the helix method. And you know, I’m bringing the business strategies on I’m bringing that piece in for some of my clients as well. And just to mention about the the helix method. So the helix method is our energy psychology modality that is the modality that I created, after all the training that I’ve done working with clients finding that I was doing things at this in this way. And it was evolved from a client actually asking me saying, Can you teach me to do what you do? So that I can work with my clients? And funnily enough, she asked me, the day after I’d had my coaching call with my, with my coach, and I’d literally written down, right, okay, I’m gonna launch the certification program, and then I woke up in the morning to her request, I was like, well, that’s a lie. Well, isn’t
Samantha Riley 03:31
that the most beautiful way for the universe to go, Louisa, wake up, this is what we want.
Louisa Haver 03:39
Now, I love it. I love it. I was like, Okay, I’m listening. Right.
Samantha Riley 03:44
Okay, we’re doing this thing now.
Louisa Haver 03:47
Exactly, exactly. That said that we
Samantha Riley 03:51
love it so much. Now, you and I were having a conversation before we started recording. And I thought this was interesting, because I haven’t had this conversation with people before. But I’ve definitely noticed it in my clients. And that is people that are having that, that sort of that first successful launch or this first, you know, influx of clients coming in after a bit of a client drought. And on the outside, they’re excited. They’re like, wow, we finally got some money in the bank. This is great. But energetically, you can see them go into some sort of freakout they put the brakes on, and it’s almost like this coming down the other side of the roller coaster where, you know, not every time but a lot of times, they really do energetically stop the continuation of this money cycle. I would love to stop here and let you lead this conversation because this is something that you mentioned that you see as well and something that that you help people with. So can you talk more to you know what you see And then let’s dive into, you know what we can do to help?
Louisa Haver 05:04
Yes, it makes sense to people when I’ve shared this with my clients or my community members. So I’m sure people will be nodding along go, ah, that’s what has happened if, if they’ve experienced this, and the piece, if we think of everything’s energy, I know everybody, well, well, well, we’ll get that in your community. And money is energy that if we have a sudden windfall of a bigger amount of money coming in, and perhaps our nervous system and our energy field is used to, it can actually feel it actually creates a shock within our system and creates a sort of nervousness response. And listeners might remember, I know I certainly remember various people telling me this when I was growing up, if I said I was nervous about something, you’d say, Oh, your body doesn’t know the difference between nervousness and excitement. Just tell yourself you’re excited. And you’ll be, you’ll be okay. So if we think about the kind of flipside of that we’re really excited, the notch has gone really well, suddenly, we’ve had more money coming in, and we’ve got more clients coming in. And we’re really excited, and the body has really nervous. And it’s felt that stock, if that makes sense. And what can happen is just to kind of put a bit of theory, that first for the listeners so they can understand where I’m coming from this is within the helix method are we talk about three flows of energy state that we can be in at any one time, and we’ll, we’ll be holding all of them at various points of our life. So we’ve got a call it the three R’s, we’ve got the receptive energy. So that’s like the flow state, that’s the state that we were being when everything’s going really well. We’ve had the windfall, the clients have all come in the notch was a huge success. It was just absolutely amazing. And we work more and more of that across all areas of our life. And then we have resistance. And that’s the second one resistance is that feeling of you’re going in the right direction. It’s feeling sticky. It’s like why is it just like pushing treacle up a hill and might feel like I’m doing two steps forward three steps back. I’m, you know, making progress, but the doubts beginning to kick in, or I’m feeling burnt out or whatever it might be. And then the third one is reserved, reversed energy. And this is when we, it comes from where we have a shop, and we can literally go in the wrong direction. We’re like taking all the action, things that were working before suddenly aren’t working. And it’s because we’ve got this energetic reversal in our field that is literally just creating this, this block. Does that make sense?
Samantha Riley 07:42
Totally makes sense. And I have seen a lot of people in all three of these. So it was very easy for me as you were explaining those to go. Yep, I’ve seen that one. Yeah, we’ve seen that one. Yep, definitely seen that one.
Louisa Haver 07:55
Yeah. And it’s to know that because energy is always changing, so we can we, I will to create future energetic, you know, reversals and resistances, etc. The key is being able to know how to spot them and to then change them, because we, we can change them, we don’t have to kind of live live with them indefinitely, thank goodness. And so this is where when we’ve had that windfall, and we’ve it’s felt like a shock to our system, because we haven’t got the energetic capacity to hold that amount of money for it to feel kind of normal rather than it to be that so exciting. In brackets, nervous system, feeling freaked out and going into an energetic reverse state. So that’s where if somebody’s recognizing this and go, Oh, my goodness, that’s what’s happening, or that resonates for me, this could be what’s happening, it could be that they’re, they’re holding an energetic reversal, as I would call it around their experience of having that large amount of money coming in. And so their nervous system is going to try and calibrate everything back down to where they where they were before. So that makes sense.
Samantha Riley 09:08
It makes perfect sense where my head is going. So I’m going to flip forward a little bit so that we can go back. I see a lot of people in sort of this resistance energy or this reverse energy thing. They’re usually very aware that they’ve got some sort of money block or something’s not quite right. And what I see is then going towards things like, you know, how can I make these quantum leaps? How can I sort of work on my manifestation? Do you need to go back and sort this out before
Louisa Haver 09:40
you go forward? Yes, is going to be so much easier to go forward when you’ve done the going back and finding out what the route was? Because otherwise the body is going to try and keep recreating that experience, if that makes sense because we haven’t let the energy of that go. Mm. And so and that’s where you can, you can recognize it where you feel like doing all the actions that were working before and suddenly they’re not working. Or you’re recognizing these patterns. And this might be a helpful example actually to to share. I remember working with a client, private client, and she was having these amazing months and then like months of nothing, but the marketing hadn’t changed. So she’s like, Louisa, what is going on? We’ve got to, we’ve got to, we’ve got to figure this out. Is that not good for my nervous system causing stock if anyone’s nervous system, because of course, if you think about that, she’s going into what hey, we’ve just had a, you know, under K mark, or whatever it is, yay, excitement, slash energetic reversal to oh my god, there’s no money coming in. Energetic reversal. And so is this kind of looping going on that was, you know, creating havoc with our nervous system. And we did some within the helix method, we use muscle testing or kinesiology as as I call it, to find out what is going on in the in the body in the subconscious mind. And we were muscle testing on I asked tags, you know, you mentioned about the Akashic records and working with energy, of course, I work very intuitively. So I knew to ask is like, what’s your What was your income last year? And she consciously said, you know, what, I don’t actually know what it is. I said, Well, let’s muscle test to find out what your you know, point, I can’t go above this point, you know, this is your upper limit. And we muscle tested out on I forget the exact figure, but it was something like 333,000, or whatever it was, and we got it very precise. And to them, we we found out where her upper limit was did the the clearings around the energetic reversals on all the different months and, you know, got rid of all of that stuff, so that she could allow herself energetically to grow beyond that, that amount. And I said to her just out of interest, go back and look at your your fingers, and then tell me what it is. And it was the exact amount of the year when she actually went back and did the sounds. And so energetically, what was happening was she’d have this windfall. But of course, that would have taken her beyond the amount that her system was calibrated to. And so she was creating these, like roller coaster results. Yeah, because of these energy reversals, and that shouldn’t kind of recreating them, because of course, the experience it was exhausting.
Samantha Riley 12:36
Totally. So you mentioned that energetically, things can stall. Could people also see this showing up in different ways of self sabotage? Like, oh, I’ve got this great client and and now I don’t think I can service this client or I know they’re going to ask for a refund or all of these kinds of things that come up.
Louisa Haver 12:59
Oh, yes, absolutely. That’s those are such great examples. Such great examples. And procrastination is a big one as well, where we can feel like, suddenly we are, we were really motivated to do the thing or to serve that client. And then we’re going to stall on it and not take the action that we want to take because we’ve we’ve hit that upper limit. And then we can create that more as the resistance can then create an energetic reversal, because depending on who you are, you may start to beat yourself up about procrastination, for example, and take yourself down down that rabbit hole, as well. So there’s so many pieces where energetically we can start to see this play out in our business and how we’re showing up for our business. Because of what we’re holding energetically and in the stories that the conscious mind is going to come up with to make it kind of reasonable isn’t like, Oh, you haven’t really got the time to do that. And you’re feeling a bit tired. So actually, you’re going to take care of yourself right now by not doing X, Y and Z, when maybe you could actually delegate it and do X Y Zed and go to the spa and take care of yourself. Yeah, I think the stories that our conscious mind can come up with that are ultimately the hidden resistances and the reversals are so clever, so clever. Well,
Samantha Riley 14:29
our conscious mind can be a bit of a rat bag Okay, and
Louisa Haver 14:35
let’s tell us about that one. Damn it. Yeah.
Samantha Riley 14:38
And you know, it’s funny you say I feel for that one but most of this stuff just goes so under the radar don’t even know you’re falling for it. And I definitely see it playing out and I need to back off this month. I just need to take care of myself is definitely one of the things that I see coming to play and a conversation I was having with someone Yes. Today, just around this, I said, there’s something that telling me if you have a big win, that energetically you’ll get, you’ll get your mojo back. And she went, you know what you’re right. I said, So backing off right now, is that really what’s needed? Like? Sometimes it is, you know, we can’t just prisoners bush. But sometimes it’s actually the opposite. And I did I call her out on the sheet. You know what, you’re right, I need I need a big a big, you know, personal weighing in my business? Because I know that that’s what I need to be able to keep moving forward.
Louisa Haver 15:32
Yes, get in that give you the energy, again, concept rather than abstaining, that that nation that is going to just create that more contraction, because we’re always contracting or expanding, is one of the two isn’t this now we, I think a great benchmark as well within that is to think about when we are making decisions from a place of contraction is that verse and that resistance energy that I was mentioning is kind of bubbling up at that point. Whereas if we’re making a decision, from a place of expansion, like I’m going to have a weird, that’s taking you forward, isn’t it? I’m going to I’m going to take, you know, have a wind in my business, it’s going to make me feel really excited. I’m expanding, I’m growing, and then that allows more of that slow growth to, to amplify.
16:16
Yeah,
Samantha Riley 16:17
all right, we’ve talked a lot about the symptoms. I’m sure that most people, if not all, people have experienced this at some time, in their life, whether in their business or in different areas of their life. And now let’s change the conversation. What can we start to do about this? Because it’s one thing to go, okay, yeah, I’ve got that symptom. But now let’s fix it.
Louisa Haver 16:45
Well, one of the very simple way that you can do this, and it really, really works is when this is what I teach within the helix method is connecting in with your higher self. So one of the processes that I use is connecting him with your higher self, so that you’re bringing all levels of your consciousness intentionally on board for creating the consciousness that you want to have and embody. And I say embody, because our body is a consciousness. So we want to bring our body on board, so that the cells in our body are in alignment with what we are wanting to create, they’ve got the beliefs down, they’ve got the emotions down are going to be helpful, you know, to serve us moving forward. So we activate the higher higher self, because the connection is always there. But it’s just being really intentional, that we’re actually being intentional. I’m going to allow my higher self and my conscious mind and my subconscious to all be in alignment, and then taking some time to do some muscle testing to find out what is really going on. So we’re not buying those stories that your conscious mind is big coming up with finding out, are we holding any energy reversals through the muscle testing? are we holding any resistances in relation to let’s say that, you know, blasting through the six figure mark, or whatever the next milestone is for people’s, for people’s businesses? And then finding out okay, so what are the beliefs and the emotions that have been holding us back that ultimately come from the identity that we’re currently holding? Because we create from our identity, I know, this is I’m sure you see it, as well, as people are transitioning and growing their businesses, it’s gonna require a different identity, yes, to be able to, you know, show up as the CEO of the six figure business show up as the CEO of the multi six figure business, different components need to come in. And so that’s the work is around changing, letting go of the old identity, the old emotions, beliefs, thoughts that, you know, served in that moment in time, but aren’t helpful for now, dealing with it at an energetic level as well. So thinking about those reversed and the resistance energies. And then once we’ve changed that, so is letting go and healing those pieces first, then going right, what’s going to actually serve me What Sorts what beliefs can I take for a spin that are going to be that my future self would have, that I can really start to bring in and embody. And so then that’s the next piece that we can do is to be able to start to imprint and I call it, it’s creating quantum coherence, so that we’ve got that coherence between the feelings that we’re feeling in our heart, the thoughts and the beliefs that we’re thinking in our head, and, and our higher self consciousness. And so when I’m working with clients, I spend time working with them, helping them to, you know, through breath, work, bringing their heart into coherence, and then we do the imprinting, and it’s so powerful, I just absolutely love it. And it’s such a simple way to do it as well, you know, so, that process is, you know, activating your higher self that connection with your higher self. I call it creating the consciousness of your future self. So that’s where we’re doing the muscle testing to find out what we need to change what we want Want to focus on and then doing the releasing part, the healing part, and then moving into the activating the alignment and creating that quantum coherence. I love it. I love it makes sense.
Samantha Riley 20:14
It makes perfect sense. Just going back to the muscle testing piece, because muscle testing is something I do every day. If anyone ever goes to dinner with me and my hands are under the table, it’s because I’m always muscle testing. What do I want for dinner? Because it’s too hard to decide what’s on the menu. I muscle test everything that’s on the menu.
Louisa Haver 20:34
Gotta love it. It’s, it’s
Samantha Riley 20:37
it’s actually very funny when when I first met my husband, hello, what are you doing? I went, Oh, I’m just checking what my body wants to eat for dinner tonight. But for people that have not done it, how would you because people may be watching people may be listening, how would you describe being able to muscle test?
Louisa Haver 20:58
Such a good question, because there are different ways to do it. Like you were saying you shouldn’t do it with your hands under the table. The one that I love doing is which you probably wouldn’t want to do at a dinner party because people were just it looked a bit weird. But it’s it’s called the way technique. I don’t know if you’re familiar with that. That one Oh, no. So it’s amazing it use your body like a dowsing device. And the reason why I really like this one is because it invites you to go within as you’re doing it. And so you’re paying attention to your body, and then it’s easier to kind of listen to your body. So how you do it just to describe it for people who are listening. And is basically if you were to stand up with your, and you can do it sitting down actually. But ultimately, if I describe it for the people who can stand is you stand up with your feet hip width apart, knees slightly soft, so you can kind of rock a bit. And then if I just use my hand as a as a demonstration, is that you then I always get people to close their eyes. And then you’re going to instruct yourself like you if you’re using a pendulum to say right if you’re, if it’s a yes, you’re going forwards. to conditionally say yes, yes, yes, yes. Yes. And your body will start going forwards for a yes. And then you say right body, we’re going backwards for no. And you say no, no, no, no, no, you’ll go backwards for now. And what I find is when people first do this, if they’ve never done it before, they might be like your husband’s down. What on earth? Are you doing your brain here, whatnot.
22:38
This is really weird.
Louisa Haver 22:39
I remember I know when I first first time I was like, What am I doing in my bedroom just going? This is ridiculous. And then it worked. And I was like, what just happened? Because you feel it? Well, I felt it. So I feel it in my my heart chakra area when I’m moving towards when it’s a yes, it’s like I can feel a magnetic bull literally pulling me forward. And then when it’s a no and I’m going back the body swaying backwards for a no. Again, I feel it between my shoulder blades. And it’s like a magnet going route, pulling the back. And so if people are new to I just invite you to give it a go with the sway technique, see how it feels, test it with things that you know to be true. So you’re not trying to do the sort of the deep dive stuff just to get your baseline reading. So saying my name is whatever your name is. So you know, that’s a yes, how old you are. You live in such and such street kind of neutral things, you can just start to feel confident with your yeses and then start saying things you know not to be true. So you can start to feel confident with that feeling going backwards. Then once you’ve got your baseline, you’re good to go in terms of being able to go right, what’s happening to me back. So you can ask yes and no questions. And it’s just such a great way to find out. Because often, you know, we were speaking earlier about the stories that our conscious mind will tell us. Sometimes people say Oh, I know this is happening because I’m angry was sad. So and you muscle test on it, and it’s not anger. And then it’s like, well, what is it? And that’s how you can stop yourself going down the wrong kind of rabbit hole by really finding out what’s what’s what’s going on energetically. So that just wanted to share the one about the sway technique because you’re then because to get a really good reading where that you have to, well, it works best if you close your eyes, go with it, and then you really listen to your body. Because that’s going to give you so much information about what is the root cause of the belief that’s holding you back. So when I’m working with clients, I will always invite people as they’re saying that the statement that they’re muscle testing on what’s happening in your body, where are you feeling it? Any memories coming through any sensations and you know, sometimes they’ll be like nothing’s come Read through something really hot to know why or suddenly remembered x y Zed from my childhood. And that’s come because they’ve been there listening to their body as they’re standing there in that position, and taking that moment to do the muscle testing.
Samantha Riley 25:17
I love that. And just to be clear, this is not the method I use under the table when I’m at a restaurant. There are many different ways to muscle Chase, I just use a finger and the thumb and that is
Louisa Haver 25:32
- Yes. Well, I do use that one as well. When I’m out and about.
Samantha Riley 25:41
I’m very visual. So I was just visualizing me sitting at a table I rocking backwards and forwards like I’ve had a bottle of wine, it was actually
Louisa Haver 25:51
do you know what this one of us used to having because my clients when they have mastered the, you know, well introduced him to muscle testing with a sway technique, so many of them will go, I was swearing in supermarket, and there’ll be going up to the different vegetables and things and holding them up and swaying. Although and I just love to see the the CCTV footage.
Samantha Riley 26:15
I would I would be cracking up laughing. It’s so funny. Awesome. So once we have sort of muscle tested, and we’re starting to understand what some of these core problems are, no, this is a big question. And we obviously can’t answer this in a podcast. But what are some of the, I guess, techniques that we can use to be able to move some of these old beliefs? And I guess the the add on to this? Is this something that we can do ourselves? Or is it something that we need to work with someone else to do? Both and not alone.
Louisa Haver 27:04
So yes, this is absolutely something that you can do yourself. And I have got a guy that I’d love to give everybody that guides him through exactly how to do the process that I’ve sort of briefly described, that you can use on your own, the and bits is the art is really in the questioning. And so I do find that when when I’m working with clients that that’s where they start to kind of understand all of because you know how we were talking about, the subconscious will be very clever, and in the conscious mind very clever in the stories that will say to, to be able to, you know, hide the resistance. Equally, we might not think of the questions to ask because we’re wanting to hide the resistance or our body’s wanting to, to hide it to keep us calibrated at that level that we’re calibrated that that makes sense. So it’s I think it’s always helpful, you know, to be able to work with other people that can just help you see those blind spots that you might be hiding. Yeah, and keeping hidden, if that makes sense. But so I recommend, you know, with my clients is to do this work daily don’t have to go down and energy rabbit hole of you know, doing a three hour deep dive every day, but just 15 minutes a day, just really being focused on once you’ve kind of done the deep dive and done the clearing out actually really focus on creating that positive energetic field around all the thoughts and the identities and the emotions that you want to have. So that you’re just spending just a short amount of time each day really connecting in the vision of what you want to create. Going through that six figure mark or the last six figure mark, whatever it may be for you, so that your cells in your body know what it feels like before you go past it. So it’s not such a shock to the system, so you don’t create that reversed energy. Did that answer your question?
Samantha Riley 29:00
Yeah, it definitely did. Because we need to be as if we are that person. Now, this is a really, really important piece to being able to move forward. I think a lot of people like who do I want to be in the future. But it’s not that it’s Latin? Who do I have to be right now to create that. But I did want to go back and just sort of touch on something you said there, which was you need to ask the right questions. And there’s definitely an art in that. And it’s something that I’ve practiced over many, many years. And I just wanted to share a little story that had happened to me was probably about eight, nine years ago. Now there was something I won’t go into the depths of the story, but essentially something had happened, where I knew that I shouldn’t move forward on it. It was going to actually I’ve said that in the wrong way I knew was something that was going to end badly. And I was asking, you know, is this going to happen and blah, blah, blah, muscle testing yet, like all these things, and I just stopped for a second and I thought I’ve got a better question here. Should I still move forward with this? And the answer was, yes, I should. I needed to go through those bad things to come out. What ended up happening on the other side of this entire situation? Was I and I did. I was like, Okay, I’m just going to trust that this is the right thing to do. It feels wrong, in the sense that this is not going to end well. What ended up happening was through a whole heap of different experiences in this particular situation, I ended up meeting my now husband, know if I had have stopped in that night and not ask that very last question. Should I still move forward with this? I never would have I would have put a stop to it. And I never would have met my husband. And I always think about this because it is very, very important to ask the right questions. And sometimes you need to be hastily not sometimes you always need to be really self aware that not everything is going to be sunshine and roses and lollipops. That it’s very important to ask the right questions, because sometimes it’s about learning something that is going to take us to the next level.
Louisa Haver 31:12
That’s amazing. Oh, goosebumps as you’re sharing that. That’s just funnily enough that
Samantha Riley 31:18
I can still remember that night. So clearly, I was in tears. I’m like, Oh, my goodness, I’m not doing this. I’m not doing this in the night. Night. Stop. Let’s ask a better question. And I did I met he was only six months. It was only six weeks later. So Wow. Yeah. Yeah, it was incredible is phenomenal. Yeah, totally. So you would see this, I guess, where, you know, I shared that story. But you would see this all the time with clients that you work with, I’m sure where they need to go through a certain experience to let go of a belief to learn something new. Do you have a story that you can share of something like this that happened with one of your clients?
Louisa Haver 32:02
Oh, let’s have her Oh, so many, though, because one of the things I do say to my clients is the obstacles, let the obstacles become the way and so that often. But if the opportunities come out of the obstacles, don’t they? That’s what I see. Is that okay? So these obstacles come up, what is the opportunity within that so that you can then move beyond that. And maybe it is, the obstacle is, let’s say, you’ve had, I was just thinking of a client who had a launch that just had no sales. So she’d gone from like, the talk about the vertigo, go from the word roller coaster, to like flatline or out. And that’s, I think, what’s the opportunity within this, and then she had her best month after that, because she changed what she was offering, and actually offered what she was completely more in alignment with, rather than the thing that she thought she should do, because that was what she had done before. If that makes sense, oh, my goodness, sometimes we need to give ourselves permission to kind of shift like, depending on our different energy types and things, like you know, I love doing lots of different things. And I know there’s lots of people out there with, you know, business models that would say just do one thing. And focus on that, that doesn’t suit me, you know, I love having lots of lots of different things. So I think we have to, you know, be in alignment with who we are,
Samantha Riley 33:26
or fairness you are a manifesting generator. So doing one thing is not going to be super helpful for you at all.
Louisa Haver 33:36
No, it really weren’t and it’s you know, it’s so funny you just just to speak to that for a moment when I found out why human design I was like, oh, so like I have got permission to do all the things and not do that. You have to do one thing because that just felt I was being trapped. Yeah. That that was the first thought that came to mind was in relation to that was recognizing that piece around how obstacles can become well as somebody I always say, but I’m sure everyone can kind of recognize that bit around. Okay, hang on a second. I know that there’s going to be challenges along this path but it doesn’t mean that it’s not the right path to take and when we ask the right questions when we’re muscle testing we can get that better answer the off my will be advising people to say is this for my highest good? Is this direction my highest good that’s a great one to phrase to use when you’re muscle testing and I’m sure if you did you know you would have been yes if you’re going no I don’t want to go that way. It’s actually though this is in your highest good to go that way because out of those obstacles, hobby or out of those obstacles is going to be your best month ever and actually your new pathway for what you’re now going to become known for in your in your business.
Samantha Riley 34:52
You were talking about that client we kind of got us off track a little tiny bit, which is one of my superpowers is getting people on I was thinking about robots, we have to embrace it right? We were talking about how the offer wasn’t quite right, because that’s what she thought she should do. And I see this all the time people thinking, like really only logically like, we do need to think logically, and all about systems and processes and thinking things through and strategy. But we need to connect it to our heart. And we need to allow ourselves the opportunity to move forward in a way that we want to move or the way that we intuitively and instinctively know that is right. And I find that that’s one of the biggest hurdles that hold people back is that, you know, when I say, is that really what you want to do? And my clients say, Well, no, but you know, I thought that I should do this, or this is what I see. And it’s like, no, no, no, if that’s, you already know that it doesn’t feel right. So, you know, going forward and really leaning into that. And I think that, you know, we were talking about the or and the and before, I think this is a piece where you do need to have someone helping you a little bit to be able to see those Bs stories that we’re telling ourselves of, we can’t do that. Because we absolutely can there is always the way.
Louisa Haver 36:22
Yes, I love it that is always away. I love it. Absolutely. So true. Where and when we follow our heart will end up in the right place. And in that alignment piece. And the challenges that we face, we don’t have to have challenges along the way. Because I think it can be it’s how we approach them from our mental attitude as well. You know, the obstacles and the challenges and all the things is areas for development is the way I like to think of it if there’s something coming up, it’s like, okay, this is an area that we need to focus on to develop, whether it’s resilience, energetic resilience, something strategic and being able to see it like that, for me, is it expansive, rather than it feeling like, Oh, I’ve been stopped? If that makes sense. Yeah, I know, sometimes when I’m joining Facebook groups and stuff, I go, what’s your biggest challenge? And I’m like, I’m not joining that Facebook group. Because I just think Well, hang on. Where’s the kind of expanse? I want the expansive question like, what’s the area for development? Let’s ask better questions, because then we’ll get better answers.
Samantha Riley 37:28
Yeah, totally. Now, you did mention a little while ago that you’ve got a guide on how to heal your money blocks. And to go through this process. Can you just explain a little bit about more, more about what this is? And how people can get a copy of that?
Louisa Haver 37:43
Yes, yes, so I’ve got the link for you so that they can download it from the link. So this is a PDF guide that they can download that I take them through the helix method manifesting process. So we’ll walk you through the activation to your higher self, how to do the muscle testing, there’s a little link to a video on a YouTube with me demonstrating it so that you can kind of follow along with free saying, Well, you know, do this now, etcetera, which can be really helpful if you’ve never done it before. And then I guide you through the, the piece around. Okay, so let’s muscle test on on some examples of some common money blocks. So I’ve given six common money blocks in there with some examples of how to raise the potential beliefs that can be linked to those particular money blocks, you’ve got a starting point there. And then the phrases around you know how to let it all go and to heal it and then and to listen to the body as you’re doing that. And then once you’ve let that go, then how to bring in that quantum coherence. And so I guide you through all of that with it within the the PDF, so it’s something that people can download, stick it to their wall by their computer and if they feel the resistance bubbling up or they feel like something’s wonky that they can use that guy to help them help them move through it.
38:58
Yeah, use it while you’re a bit wonky before the wheels fall off.
Samantha Riley 39:07
Louisa it’s been such a pleasure chatting with you today. You’ve just dropped so many value bombs and considering it’s almost midnight there, you’ve been an absolute trooper. What is one little piece that you want to leave people with today that’s so important to, to remember or to take into consideration when we’re thinking about really stepping into that abundance piece in a big way.
Louisa Haver 39:33
I think to kind of wrap it all up would be teaching your body how to be your future self, if that makes sense so that your cells know what it feels like before you’re there. So you start to embody that consciousness. And so that you’re then able to less likely create more of those reversed energetic states that come in as you as your business is great because you’re already the The car of that next level because you’ve already done that work, so your body’s already calibrated to it.
Samantha Riley 40:06
I love that so much, Louisa, thank you so much for joining me today. And like I said, dropping all these value bombs. This has been such a fabulous conversation.
Louisa Haver 40:17
Thank you so much for having me.
Samantha Riley 40:20
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